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		<title>A Secret to Physical Health, Life Longevity, and Cancer (from observing hotel maids)</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 13:38:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ToddKashdan</dc:creator>
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By happier.com expert Todd Kashdan, Ph.D.
I lied. Studying the ins and outs of hotel maids provide absolutely no insight into cancer.
Besides lying to you, I have no idea what the politically correct term is for women who clean hotel rooms. Maid? chambermaid? housekeeper? female room attendant? If I offend anyone, my apologies for failing to [...]]]></description>
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<p>By happier.com expert <a href="https://happier.com/experts/Todd_Kashdan.jsp">Todd Kashdan, Ph.D.</a></p>
<p>I lied. Studying the ins and outs of hotel maids provide absolutely no insight into cancer.<br />
Besides lying to you, I have no idea what the politically correct term is for women who clean hotel rooms. Maid? chambermaid? housekeeper? female room attendant? If I offend anyone, my apologies for failing to master the appropriate terminology. But everything else is true and rather inoffensive. In this brief  post, you will learn a single secret to physical fitness and mental health that might translate into longer, better living.</p>
<p>Hotel maids are notorious for waking up at ridiculously early hours to start working. They also are confronted with unwanted flesh at surprising intervals and in surprising situations. There&#8217;s the man who refuses to make a peep while sitting on the toilet until spotted. There&#8217;s the man who opens the front door with swinging genitalia lacking a single synaptic connection to the idea of covering up. There&#8217;s the guest&#8217;s drunken friend who rests peacefully face to the ground, ass in the air, burrowed behind the curtains. I&#8217;m not being sexist. 97 out of 100 encounters, the naked being will be male. But I digress.</p>
<p>Hotel maids are stressed out and thus, have little time for a formal workout. If you don&#8217;t believe me, go ask a hotel maid how often they go the gym or jog in the park. They certainly do enough bending, lifting, climbing, and moving to burn off calories. Which begs the question- what if maids were made mindfully aware and open to the idea that a fitness routine is embedded into their job? Could changing their mindset lead to actual changes in their physical and mental health? A few researchers sought to find out.</p>
<p><a href="http://blog.happier.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/87603411.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2996 alignleft" title="87603411" src="http://blog.happier.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/87603411-201x300.jpg" alt="87603411" width="201" height="300" /></a>As the most minimal of interventions, one group of hotel maids were informed about the importance of daily exercise and how their regimen of climbing stairs, vacuuming, cleaning linen, and scrubbing tables and tubs affects their body. They were given exact details, for example, a 140-pound women burns 50 calories after vacuuming for 15 minutes. They were told that their typical workday far exceeds the exercise recommendations of the Surgeon General. A second group of hotel maids were given the same information about the benefits of exercise but weren&#8217;t told anything about how their work effort is in fact, exercise. With this comparison group, the researchers could determine whether there was some unique benefit to being mindful about what constitutes exercise.</p>
<p>So what happened when these maids were tracked down a month later? After only 4 weeks of learning that work might serve as exercise, the maids lost an average of 2 pounds, lowered their blood pressure by an average of 10 points, and trimmed their body fit even though they didn&#8217;t change their diet or add any exercise to their routine. The only thing that changed was that how they attended to their physical exertion at work. That&#8217;s it! As for the comparison group, they basically remained in the same shape as when they started.</p>
<p>Yet another testament to how our mindset can alter our bodies. We can&#8217;t always feel good but we can almost always be profoundly aware and open to what we do. Being fully alive during these moments are the building blocks to a life well lived.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a question that we should all be asking- what do I fail to notice in my daily routine that&#8217;s important to my physical, mental, and social well-being?</p>
<p>And tell your hotel maid how muscular her arms are looking so she can live a long, healthy life&#8230;.<a href="https://happier.com/experts/Todd_Kashdan.jsp"><br />
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<p><strong>Dr. Todd B. Kashdan is a clinical psychologist and professor of psychology at George  Mason University. He is the author of <a href="http://astore.amazon.com/happierinsigh-20/detail/006166118X" target="_blank">Curious? Discover the Missing Ingredient to a Fulfilling Life</a>. For more about his books and research, go to <a href="http://bit.ly/31kB5" target="_blank">www.toddkashdan.com</a></strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.happier.com/">happier.com</a> is a personal trainer for your happiness. With more than a <a href="https://happier.com/tools.jsp">dozen tools and tests to help you measure, track and improve your happiness</a>, you can trust the <a href="https://happier.com/experts.jsp">happier.com experts</a> to help you reach your goals. <a href="https://happier.com/content.htm">Exclusive videos</a> and a <a href="../">popular blog</a> mean there’s something new to learn every day. Download the <a href="../about-2/gratitude-journal-iphone-application-by-happiercom/">free iPhone application</a> or find what you’re looking for with the <a href="http://directory.happier.com/">Positive Psychology Practitioner Directory</a>. happier.com is on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/happieronline">Facebook</a>, <a href="http://www.happier.com/LinkedIn">LinkedIn</a>, and <a href="http://twitter.com/happier">twitter</a> and has meetup groups in <a href="http://www.happierdc.com/">Washington</a>, <a href="http://www.happierphilly.com/">Philadelphia</a>, and <a href="http://www.meetup.com/happierportland/">Portland</a>, with more planned. Click here for a <a href="../launch-announcement-happier-com-a-personal-trainer-for-your-happiness/">social media press release from our launch</a>.</p>
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		<title>Happy Mind, Happy Body &#8211; Exercise is Therapy: Self-Monitor</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 17:14:35 +0000</pubDate>
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By guest contributor Gloria Park Perin
When chronic exercisers are asked about the top reason they engage in physical activity, the #1 reason they cite are shifts in mood, namely increases in experienced positive emotion.  Unfortunately, exercise isn’t instant gratification, and most people won’t experience the mood-boosting effects of exercise until they have developed a regular [...]]]></description>
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<p>By guest contributor <a href="../happiercom-insights/invited-guest-author-gloria-park-perin/">Gloria Park Perin</a></p>
<p>When chronic exercisers are asked about the top reason they engage in physical activity, the #1 reason they cite are shifts in mood, namely increases in experienced positive emotion.  Unfortunately, exercise isn’t instant gratification, and most people won’t experience the mood-boosting effects of exercise until they have developed a regular routine for several weeks.</p>
<p><em>Keep an exercise log.</em> Record the date and time of activity, the intensity, and the length of each session of physical activity. Also note if you were alone, or with a friend, and how much you enjoyed the activity. Free tools are available <a href="http://www.maintainfit.com/">online</a> and even on your <a href="http://www.apple.com/webapps/sports/fitsync.html">iPhone</a>.</p>
<p><em>Monitor your mood. </em>At the end of each day, log into Happier and use the <a href="https://happier.com/assessment.htm">Positivity Test</a> or <a href="https://happier.com/assessment.htm">Authentic Happiness Index</a> to track changes in your positivity ratio or happiness levels. Record your scores in the exercise log.</p>
<p><em>Use feedback to revise your strategy. </em>After several weeks, go back and review the log. Are there specific types of activities that boost your mood over others? Does the time of day for exercise seem to have an impact? Take note of these patterns and adjust your routine.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.happier.com/">happier.com</a> is a personal trainer for your happiness.  With more than a <a href="https://happier.com/tools.jsp">dozen tools and tests to help you measure, track and improve your happiness</a>, you can trust the <a href="https://happier.com/experts.jsp">happier.com experts</a> to help you reach your goals.  <a href="https://happier.com/content.htm">Exclusive videos</a> and a <a href="../">popular blog</a> mean there’s something new to learn every day.  Download the <a href="../about-2/gratitude-journal-iphone-application-by-happiercom/">free iPhone application</a> or find what you’re looking for with the <a href="http://directory.happier.com/">Positive Psychology Practitioner Directory</a>.  happier.com is on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/happieronline">Facebook</a>, <a href="http://www.happier.com/LinkedIn">LinkedIn</a>, and <a href="http://twitter.com/happier">twitter</a> and has meetup groups in <a href="http://www.happierdc.com/">Washington</a>, <a href="http://www.happierphilly.com/">Philadelphia</a>, and <a href="http://www.meetup.com/happierportland/">Portland</a>, with more planned.  Click here for a <a href="../launch-announcement-happier-com-a-personal-trainer-for-your-happiness/">social media press release from our launch</a>.</p>
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		<title>Happy Mind, Happy Body &#8211; Exercise is Therapy: Set Positive Goals</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 12:14:05 +0000</pubDate>
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By guest contributor Gloria Park Perin
Taking on an approach versus avoidance mindset can do wonders for motivation. Sure, dropping the saddlebags and squeezing into a bikini are great goals for exercise, but instead of focusing on some aspect of yourself that you want to change or lose, why not ask yourself what you might gain [...]]]></description>
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By guest contributor Gloria Park Perin</p>
<p>Taking on an approach versus avoidance mindset can do wonders for motivation. Sure, dropping the saddlebags and squeezing into a bikini are great goals for exercise, but instead of focusing on some aspect of yourself that you want to change or lose, why not ask yourself what you might <strong>gain</strong> in terms of vitality and the physical capacity to pursue a good life?</p>
<p><em>Create a vision of the future. </em>Start by thinking about what is most important to you and work from there. Are your children the most important to you? Or developing your entrepreneurial endeavors? Write down what you envision as your best possible future.</p>
<p><em>Think about the tangible rewards. </em>Articulate what you could potentially gain in these areas of your life by becoming more active: More energy to run around and play with your children? Increased ability to handle daily stressors in managing and growing your business?</p>
<p><em>Finally, set positively worded goals.</em> “I will” vs. “I won’t” or “I hope to gain” vs. “I hope to lose”.  Write these down and revisit them frequently.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.happier.com">happier.com</a> is a personal trainer for your happiness.  With more than a <a href="https://happier.com/tools.jsp">dozen tools and tests to help you measure, track and improve your happiness</a>, you can trust the <a href="https://happier.com/experts.jsp">happier.com experts</a> to help you reach your goals.  <a href="https://happier.com/content.htm">Exclusive videos</a> and a <a href="http://blog.happier.com/">popular blog</a> mean there’s something new to learn every day.  Download the <a href="http://blog.happier.com/about-2/gratitude-journal-iphone-application-by-happiercom/">free iPhone application</a> or find what you’re looking for with the <a href="http://directory.happier.com/">Positive Psychology Practitioner Directory</a>.  happier.com is on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/happieronline">Facebook</a>, <a href="http://www.happier.com/LinkedIn">LinkedIn</a>, and <a href="http://twitter.com/happier">twitter</a> and has meetup groups in <a href="http://www.happierdc.com">Washington</a>, <a href="http://www.happierphilly.com">Philadelphia</a>, and <a href="http://www.meetup.com/happierportland/">Portland</a>, with more planned.  Click here for a <a href="http://blog.happier.com/launch-announcement-happier-com-a-personal-trainer-for-your-happiness/">social media press release from our launch</a>.</p>
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		<title>Happy Body, Happy Mind &#45; Steps Toward Happiness with Exercise as Therapy</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 11:21:29 +0000</pubDate>
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By guest contributor Gloria Park Perin
What if there was a pill that you could take every day to effectively prevent diabetes, high blood pressure, heart disease, and certain forms of cancer? And what if the same pill would effectively reduce nearly every risk associated with all cause mortality? Would you take it? Would you urge [...]]]></description>
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<p>By guest contributor <a href="../happiercom-insights/invited-guest-author-gloria-park-perin/">Gloria Park Perin</a></p>
<p>What if there was a pill that you could take every day to effectively prevent diabetes, high blood pressure, heart disease, and certain forms of cancer? And what if the same pill would effectively reduce nearly every risk associated with all cause mortality? Would you take it? Would you urge your families and friends to take it?</p>
<p>These are <a href="http://bjsm.bmj.com/cgi/content/full/43/1/3">questions Dr. Robert Sallis posed</a> as I listened to him describe the new “<a href="http://exerciseismedicine.org/">Exercise is Medicine</a>” initiative by the American College of Sports Medicine (ACSM) and the American Medical Association (AMA). Amid fiery debate over escalating costs and declining accessibility to healthcare, this groundbreaking partnership intends to push exercise and physical activity into the forefront of the public healthcare management discourse and introduces them as an integral aspect of disease treatment and prevention.</p>
<p>What if this pill was also a powerful tool in warding off dementia, anxiety, and depression? What if it improved self-esteem, cognitive functioning, and boosted your mood?</p>
<p>Exercise is a low-cost, accessible, and self-directed activity, and the truth is, most of us know that exercise is both medicine and therapy. So why aren’t we doing more of it? We all hear the Surgeon General’s warnings about smoking, sedentary lifestyles, and the dangers of eating fast food, yet we still sit in front of our televisions watching incessant advertisements for the latest antidepressants, channel surfing with our greasy French-fried fingers, then wake up to a breakfast of Camel lights and coffee.</p>
<p>We need more than just information – we need motivation!  Until an Exercise is Therapy initiative is developed, follow some of the simple tips in this blog series to get you on the path toward adopting a healthier and HAPPIER lifestyle, which begins like anything else: Just one step at a time.</p>
<p>*For more great tips, check out “<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Move-Your-Body-Tone-Mood/dp/1572242752">Move Your Body: Tone Your Mood</a>” by <a href="http://www.theperformingedge.com/">Dr. Kate F. Hays</a>.</p>
<p>Sallis, R.E. (2009). Exercise is medicine and physicians need to prescribe it! <em>British Journal of Sports Medicine, 43,</em> 3-4.</p>
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		<title>Making the Active and Constructive Responding Execise Work for You</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 17:56:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Acacia Parks-Sheiner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dr. Acacia Parks-Sheiner answers a common question from users:
Question: The exercise Active and Constructive Responding isn&#39;t &#34;me.&#34; How do I practice this technique without being &#34;fake&#34;?
Answer: Every time I teach Active and Constructive Responding to a group, at least one person expresses the concern that their efforts using this exercise will be perceived by others [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://directory.happier.com/?p=17">Dr. Acacia Parks-Sheiner</a> answers a common question from users:</p>
<p><strong>Question:</strong> The exercise <a href="https://happier.com/acr/Main.htm">Active and Constructive Responding</a> isn&#39;t &quot;me.&quot; How do I practice this technique without being &quot;fake&quot;?</p>
<p><strong>Answer:</strong> Every time I teach<a href="https://happier.com/acr/Main.htm"> Active and Constructive Responding</a> to a group, at least one person expresses the concern that their efforts using this exercise will be perceived by others as fake or uncharacteristic of them. People particularly get hung up on what it means to “display genuine interest,” and whether that requires them to act “perky” or “upbeat” when that may not be their natural demeanor. Here are the three things I say in response:</p>
<p>1. You’d be surprised how responsive people are to behaviors that are pleasant, even if they are atypical of the person doing them. Just because you’ve never done something before doesn’t mean that other people won’t be happy to see you do it.</p>
<p>2. It is normal to feel a bit uncomfortable when trying out something new – give it a try anyway. What’s the worst that could happen?</p>
<p>3. You don’t have to become a different person, or adopt a different demeanor, to display interest. Just ask a lot of questions! The more you prolong a conversation, the more obvious it is that you are interested in the topic. This “counts” as being Active and Constructive just as much as squealing and jumping up and down does.</p>
<p>And here&#8217;s what Todd Kashdan has to say about putting these skills to place in the work environment:</p>
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<p>Dr. Acacia Parks-Sheiner is an instructor in positive psychology, a researcher and a <a href="http://directory.happier.com/?p=17">member of the Positive Psychology Practitioner Directory</a>.  Dr. Parks-Sheiner has taught a variety of classes on how to use positive psychology interventions, and she often gets questions from students and clients about what will work best for them.</p>
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		<title>Happy Mind, Happy Body &#45; Exercise is Therapy: Be Realistic</title>
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By guest contributor Gloria Park Perin
Optimism can help us look toward the future, but unreasonable optimism can be your worst enemy when you&#8217;re setting goals for exercise. If you start by reaching too high, falling short of your initial goal may ultimately serve to make you feel discouraged, rather than inspired to exercise.  Even worse, [...]]]></description>
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<p>By guest contributor <a href="http://blog.happier.com/happiercom-insights/invited-guest-author-gloria-park-perin/">Gloria Park Perin</a></p>
<p>Optimism can help us look toward the future, but unreasonable optimism can be your worst enemy when you&#8217;re setting goals for exercise. If you start by reaching too high, falling short of your initial goal may ultimately serve to make you feel discouraged, rather than inspired to exercise.  Even worse, overdoing it can bring harm or injury to your body.</p>
<p><em>Take stock of your life.</em> If you’re already working full-time, raising two children, and taking night classes, then aspiring to exercise for three hours every day is probably unrealistic.  Ask yourself: Based on what my life looks like right now, what is a goal that seems manageable and attainable?</p>
<p><em>Give yourself permission to be human.</em> We all fall off the wagon, sometimes three or four times, when we’re trying to adopt a good habit (or break a bad habit).  Be disciplined and make plans for following through on your schedule, but if an emergency comes up, don’t beat yourself up. Sit down, take a breath, and create an alternate plan, which can be as simple as promising to take the stairs to your 14<sup>th</sup> floor office in the morning.</p>
<p><em>Be flexible.</em> In exercise, think None-or-Something, rather than default to the All-or-Nothing thinking that can be one of the greatest barriers to physical activity. Even brief bouts of physical activity spread through the day can bring similar physical and psychological benefits. Remember this next time you want to can your workout for the day just because you can’t run the entire 6 miles.</p>
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